Annoyed with my best friend is it normal?

Annoyed with my best friend is it normal?

My best friend and me have been best friends forever mainly because we are cousins so shell always be in my life but lately ive been getting really annoyed with her. Its like she thinks shes better then me because this one time someone said to her your a very pretty girl and she turns to me and smiles saying haha im better then you She also keeps calling me names and i know with best friends its supposed to be a joke but i take her seriously because i dont know if shes joking anymore. Its like she likes making fun of me and calling me an idiot and telling to me to chill when im really mad. On facebook if there is a vedio or funny photo of me shell comment saying haha look at Victoria she looks like a loser and i know its a joke but she does it all the time even in person. Ive told her to stop with the names but she hasnt. I just dont want to stand near her anymore and every time she laughs i want to put take over her mouth to shut her up. I dont know what to do. I still want to be best friends but lately its like she wants to push me down.

Asked by actresswantabe44 about Friends

I think that its normal. My best friend can make me angrier than almost anyone I know. Its because you two spend so much time together. Make some new friends and hang out with them for a while it sounds like you guys need a break from each other.

Answered by LauraR

tell her not to call you a loser and she could just be kiddin around. my bff and i do tat all the time its ttly normal

Answered by LizzyLovesYou:)

Of course its normal to get annoyed with your best friend ive been best friends with mine since we were 12 and were now 21. Almost 10 years and we still annoy each other occasionally ...Although its not very normal for her to be putting you down so much. Shes obviously got this idea that shes better than you clearly she is not since she is behaving like a nasty child and thinks she can make fun of you. People like this get a bit of a kick out of putting other people down and it makes them feel good or better than them. Unfortunately this is just human nature. All you can do is act like you really couldnt care less until she hopefully grows out of it. Try not to get worked up as she obviously finds this amusing and confrontaion will just end up with a chill out it was just a joke. Spend time with other friends or start doing something that shes not involved in and she will begin to realise she is driving you away. If she is a true friend she will notice and cut it out If she keeps it up remember you dont deserve or need to take that from anyone. Also just because she is your cousin too never feel the need you HAVE to stay best friends with her.

Answered by Blair03